Rating: 4 stars
Cover synopsis: Chinese parenting is one of the most difficult things I can think of. You have to be hated by someone you love. It's a never-ending uphill battle, requiring a 24-7 time commitment, resilience and guile.
Such an interesting book, thought-provoking and fun to read. While I disagree with the severity of Chua's parenting tactics (name-calling, shaming, yelling), I found myself agreeing with more of her sentiments than I thought I would.
For instance, I really liked the point she made about assuming strength not fragility in your children. Chua also says, "one of the worst things you can do for your child's self esteem is to let them give up. On the flip side, there's nothing better for building confidence than learning you can do something you thought you couldn't." So true.
She also talks a lot about how parenting is hard work. Educating your children is hard work. Making sure your kids find time for what's important is hard work. Teaching them to be focused and appreciative is hard work. You don't become a strict parent out of selfishness, but love.
Now, what I'd really like to know is her husband's side of this story?
